Some more of the real

      So the end of 2013 I wrote a post "the real"… basically was me stating my opinion on relationships. I didn't get too in depth, was just talking shit cus thats what i do the best…. BUT now its April 2015, and Im ALWAYS asked how I feel about relationships. I joke a lot, and I keep a lot of my views to myself because clearly, I don't care to share them wit strangers, SORRY… but here I am… here to talk some more shit… Real shit at least, so sit down and pay attention real quick….

      Well, to begin I wanna say that I feel like the pressure to be tied down is fucking outrageous. Like people make it seem like there is something wrong with you if you aren't in a situation. Like EYEM the bad guy if I'm single. WHY? I have no clue. Is it because people think you can't be happy alone? Is it because THEY can't stomach the thought of not being attached to ONE person, so they assume everyone should be that way? Everyone assumes you have to have that "someone", when really, there are actually some of us that don't….. SHHHHIIIIITT can we live my nigga?

      Society is sick. This generation is filled with confusion. The young ladies are wanting more and more from men. And the men are wanting less and less from women. HOW THE HELL WE SUPPOSE TO MEET IN THE MIDDLE? HUH SWAY?? And every situation is different. Every man isn't "the same".. As a grown as ADULT, we know what we attract. We know what were attracted to. So if your last three dudes just happened to not be shit, then guess what MA… Theres a great chance number four will be the same.. And that my friend, is all YOUR FAULT. Don't shoot the messenger. But were so quick to throw salt on men as if its their job to be shit, no ma'am its our job to know better and to do better. But with the fakery comes excitement. And with excitement comes lust… And with lust comes thoughts that maybe this person who we CLEARLY know isn't shit, could possibly turn into something more.. ONE DAY… idk, maybe this is just how I see things..

      Men…. They are just as afraid as us when it comes to commitment and looking dumb and all that extra shit… But with them, they use the "tough guy" role as an excuse. Three bitches as their main, because they're too scared to give one the chance to break his WIDDLE heart. I mean, three souns better than one… YES… But with that, he doesn't need to be tied down. He doesn't need to be faithful. I mean, how can you be faithful to multiple woman? Wait, don't answer that lol… Men are just like us… They just aren't as openly emotional as us ….. YUP, they just know how to hide their feelings a lot better than more of us…. But trust me, I know y'all be caring *inserts nail polish emoji*

      Relationships aren't for everyone, I believe this. I think you need to go through a lot of fuck ups to appreciate a certain person. And when I say fuck ups, i don't mean little mess ups. You can't appreciate a perfect person, I know I cant. If you're perfect, you aren't real. So get your little fake ass far from me, please and thank you..Maybe my mind works differently. But if whoever you're dealing with hasn't or doesn't fuck up they are a GREAT fucking liar… I also believe that no one can be forced into a relationship. Or into love. If its there, its there. If its not, let go and let god young grasshopper. Y'all see relationships on IG, and be like "GOALS" when really he's fucking his GF's best friend but y'all want that love SOO bad. Y'all will force a relationship just for "likes" and I hate you people for that. ON GOD. Doing the most to impress a bunch of people who probably hate you anyway, what is life???Anyone willing to admit they're scared yet? Nah? Oh iight, I have and will again… Im TOO scared to give ONE person 100% of me. Because if he wakes up one day and has a change of heart.. While I've been all about him, I will most likely grab a knife, and stab him…. stab him below the waist so I don't get attempted murder charges, but imma make sure he feels its :)

      Real life relationships are beautiful though I will say that… And they are meant to be sacred and every situation you get in ISNT suppose to get a title. But again, maybe Im bugging. Ill run these streets being "Single Spank" before I'm in a relationship with someone that I know isn't all about me. LOYALTY, sound it out with me. LOY-al-TY. Thats where it all starts. If he can't respect you, if he can't be loyal enough to no fuck your sister then stop wasting your time boo boo. Mistakes are to be made. Will be made. But theres a respectful way to do disrespectful things!! Remember that people!! Write it down!! Just stop getting into relationships for the wrong reasons. Cus you're taking the value away from what it really is. Really ruining something that isn't meant to be played with.