Hey bitches! Im gonna start this off pretty quickly. The name of this post is as clear as it can get. 20 signs that a man is into you... aka 20 signs that a man could possibly make you his lady..... also just fuck cus these niggas be straight finessing, but imma give them the benefit of the doubt and say these are the sign that he wants you to be his girl.. Read up, give me some feedback, and enjoy the show...
1. Calling/ texting for no reason...
Now, some people are on their phones 24/7. Most people use their phone when it comes to work, and school... They're checking their emails, online shopping, stalking or just updating their social networks. But phones are literally glued to our hands nowadays. But that doesn't mean he's always trying to get in contact with the woman he's dealing with at the moment. Shit I know a lot of dudes who can go days without speaking on the phone with the person they're fucking with and shit be cool. And I GUESS that's ok, but also, I think that means he's just not that into you. A simple call, or text means a lot and lowkey shows a lot. I know your phone is in your hand as soon as you're not busy, so if I see that you're texting me I know I crossed your mind. A man may not care too much to text, so a call is cool. Or maybe vise versa, he hates talking on the phone but he makes sure to texts you and update you on his day.
2. He wants to be around you....
Now I'm not saying he wants to be all up under you all damn day like a little puppy cus that's just creepy... Nah wait, I'm lying that's not creepy cus I like being under a nigga.. BUT STILL. What I'm saying is he actually wants to spend time with you! And not just give you hard dick and bubble gum then call you an uber. He makes an effort to see you regularly. He enjoys your company and you can tell!
3. He makes time for you...
Now this is always a plus. He not ONLY wants to be around you, but he somehow someway fits you in his hectic schedule. Now that's true love to me. Shit, he's a busy man. And you don't want to make shit too crazy for him by complaining that you don't see him. YOU DONT HAVE TO, because he makes sure to give you some of his time.
4. His friends/ family know about you...
Now let's me clarify this, cus this can get taken the wrong way. His friends and family not only KNOW about you, but they get a chance to actually know you. And you get to know them. Not that "oh I met his mother when I was walking through the living room to his bedroom" type shit. I mean, his boys actually like you with him, so they want to feel you out and see what you really about. If he really becomes your man his friends automatically become your friends. So this is a crucial part of the relationship. His friends and family need to like you just like you need to like them. Cus they aren't going anywhere!
5. The softie on FLEEK....
You know I had to stop all the "textbook" answers real quick and come with the real. If this man is comfortable around you with his meat on soft, you my friend... You just might be the one. And I don't mean, just after you suck him off, go and get the wet rag to clean him off softie. I mean, just laying around dick all squishy and letting his little pee pee swanggg softie. Shit you might actually be the love of his life so just feel special.
6. He takes time to get to know the people around you....
He's eager to know about your friends and family. Because not only do you get to know all about his friends and family he needs to be just as comfortable around yours!
7. EYE CONTACT...
Some of us aren't good with body language and that's fine. Body language means everything to others though, you can read somebody just by the way they move... BUT one thing everyone should pay close attention to is EYE CONTACT. Now it's a sign of respect, that's one thing. Another thing it just shows he's paying close attention to YOU and YOUR words. Eye contact says a lot about someone, and if you're wondering if he's that special someone, pay attention to them eyes next time you're saying something real to him.
8. Listens to you...
Listening is simple. Everyone listens. Shit even a little 5 year old can listen. But when he listens to you, with the intent to understand now that's different. That's something not everyone has in their life. Remembering the little details you tell him. So if he's doing that, shit you better keep him around.
9. Overly Concerned....
Ok, hear me out. Being concerned about someone may be a natural instinct. BUT, being overly concerned is NOT. When he cares about you and your well being and wants the best for you that's a great sign. we're all concerned to a certain degree about the people in our lives but when he makes it a habit to make sure you ate, gets you warm when youre cold, holds you when you're sad... That is something you keep close! Because the next man may not give two shits about if you haven't ate all day. PAY ATTENTION LADIES
10. Doesn't mind your flaws...
We all have them. Some more than others. Some are more comfortable with theirs than others but when he knows your flaws, sees them and accepts them.... WHATTTTTTTTT... Now there's nothing wrong with fixing what you want to fix, and being the best YOU that you want to be. But he can make you feel just as beautiful with that little extra 10 pounds you want to lose so badly. "Put your flaws in the hands of a real nigga and see what happens" them flaws turn into something you ain't even worried about anymore!
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