I just started writing a blog on "chivalry" and i was half way done just to think to myself like,... "Self.... Chivalry is cool and all that, and Imma let you finish... But ain't shit niggas are having the best run of all time".... Ok.. I just got a little carried away with that line... But you get what I'm saying. A man that is literally a gentleman. Worried about your feelings. Calls and texts everyday. Checks on you. Cares for you. Surprises you, is usually the motherfucka you end up putting in the friend zone.. A man could literally show you everything you ever wanted. Be your modern day "Prince Charming" and you'll push him to the side for Tyrone in the wife beater and tims... LIKE WHY BITCH.
In my eyes, I think it's all about the chase.. Wanting something so baddddd and not getting it. A man that is always available isn't attractive.... BRUH WE ARE SICK INDIVIDUALS... The man that ignores you, is the one you're chasing... The man who cancels dates, is the one whose IG you're stalking. The one who lies is the one you wanna believe so bad.... When in reality you have a "good" guy willing to give you the world, but you're too busy chasing a fucking rain drop (I'm horrible with analogies... Sorry) but the point is, when will the "good guy" be appreciated? When will we stop bitching and complaining about how there are no "REAL MEN" in this world when really, you're just ignoring him for the nigga who's ignoring you.
Females are such savages it's wild. We want a sweet, loving man but we also want a man who will not let us walk all over them. We want someone to be tough on the outside but soft on the inside. OR WE SAY. When really some of Yall just want a nigga that'll Ray rice you if you don't act right (sorry for using Ray. I love Ray but I had to...) We want want want, but when we have it in our face we run away. We say "he's too nice" "he has no backbone" ... Instead of just realizing, he appreciates you, and respects you to not do fuck shit..I don't think anyone on the earth is ok with NOT being happy, but in a sense I think we are comfortable with the man that treats us like shit. Could be how we were raised. Something that happened in a previous relationship, anything. There's definitely fear somewhere in her heart, when she's chasing the "bad guy" and possibly even confusion in her mind when the good guy is chasing her...
I'll admit it, I've been there. Shit I may still be there. Worrying about the nigga with all the looks, 13 bitches on his line, he answers text when he feels like it. I guess you could say it's the thrill. No... It's not the thrill I'm just fucking retarded basically. I've had the "perfect man" in front of me and I've passed him up plenty of times. Is it because I'm scared? Scared that I'm not even worthy enough to deal with someone so perfect? Or is that an excuse. Is that my easy way out? I'm not really sure and also not sure if I'll ever figure that out. But for now I'll continue to chase these fine niggas and get my heart fake broke til the time is right.
There's no reason why a man should change how he acts to get a woman. If you're a good dude, with respect through the roof and the bitch you want doesn't appreciate it.. Then you my friend need to do better. Stop chasing her and find you a bitch that will love when you answer all her calls on the first ring. And ladies, if you knew better you would do better. You say you want a real man, so stop chasing the boys. You say you want someone to care, stop worrying about the nigga that shows you he doesn't. Then maybe the good guy will win, but til then.... Sorry, Yall still on the losing team..
I believe you have to become a loser before becoming a winner. But some of us like to play the game depends if it's worth it . The way there female they're guy and the way there guy they're female. You know what I mean lol..
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing about this post is I've had this convo with my shorty for months now. She so afraid of fucking things up with bc her ex was/is a fuck nigga who refuses to go away and for lack of a better term damaged her. Problem is even though I know she damaged goods she's my damaged goods (at least I want her to be) but we seem to not be able to get past this point. I don't get the idea of wanting to be happy but continously falling for and going back to fuck niggadom. It's good to see she's not the only one (as expected) but I would really like to have a convo with someone that replicates this retarded behavior to figure out why.
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