20 signs he's into you.... Part 2

11. He wants to know about your past..

He's not doing it to judge you, or to point the finger at you. But he wants to understand why you are the way you are. What helped you become this woman today. Who and what molded you to be so strong. Curiosity isn't always bad. When he's curios about your past, let him in on it. Maybe he'll help you get through some things. Or maybe you both can enjoy a good memory together.

12. Shows his vulnerable side.....

I know I'm not one to EVER ever ever ever show my vulnerable side, because BIHHHH you are not gonna have me open like that. BUT, I will say there's been a time or two where I let my guard down and opened up. And even though I'm a female, most men are just like that. If he happens to open up to you and let you in on some shit that you would of never known before LET HIM. You can see his weaknesses, and not take advantage. You can help him be better. But when he shows you that just know, you mean something. May not mean you're gonna be his wife, but you're deff gonna have a special place in his heart.

13. Makes you feel special...

Ok, now let me explain more.... A comment with heart emojis on IG is not what I'm talking about ladies! I mean, if that makes you feel all tingly inside then shit, so be it. But I'm talking about simple shit. I mean little compliments, the good HONEST and unique ones.. Unexpected affection. Him being there when you need him. Doing little lovey dovey romantic shit. Now that will make a woman feel like she is beyond special. And not every man will do that, but when he does... Shit you'll know what it means...

14. Shows you off

This may be a touchy subject. And ladies please do not go and make your man read this post and say "nigga you don't love me" because you're not on his IG. EYE am not gonna get in the middle of this. But what I will say is, if he's into you.... He will want to show you off. Not only on social networks but in real life. He wants everyone in the room to know you're his lady, because shit he's pursuing you for a reason. This shouldn't be a make or break deal (even though some females make it that way) BUT... BUT... There should be no reason your man doesn't want the world to know about you. Men show off that new car they buy. They show off if they get a promotion at work... They show off them new balenciagas he worked so hard to buy, but.. Can't show you off? OH. Well either he's hiding you from his other girlfriends or he's just not that into you. SORRY DO NOT SHOOT THE GOTDAMN MESSENGER 

15. Canceling bro dates to hang with you...

THIS RIGHT HERE.... Yeah this right here means something. If he tells his homies "nah I'm in for the night" while you're sitting right next to him, just know either A. Pussy too bomb B. he's really into you or C. ALL OF THE ABOVE. So pat yourself on the shoulders young ladies if he's ever cancelled hanging with the boys for you. YOU THE SHIT *inserts red dress dancing emoji*

16. His ex's know about you...

Whether it be an ex girlfriend, ex side piece or an ex HO. She's very aware of you. And she feels your presence. She knows that whatever little title she had before, could quickly be removed if you act right and turn him into a respectable man. The exes know when a female is here to stay, and when it's just for the moment. So if she's feeling pressure from you, just know.... She KNOWS you are a threat ;-)

17. Shows affection...

There's dudes that are affectionate and there's dudes that aren't. And the dudes that aren't will be affectionate with the one they want to take serious. Even if he's not one to hold hands, or kiss all the damn time... He will do it because he knows that's what you like. Men (NOT ALL but shit some of yall) will not be lovey with just any female, you have to mean something. Not only is he kissing you, but it's at random times. In between sentences. Little shit that can't do anything but make you smile cus you know he's coming out of his shell...

18. HE GETS MAD AT YOU!!!

Showing emotions, especially for a man shows a lot. And if a man shows you when he's happy, thats cool.. He shows you when he's sad, THATS GOOD. Now if he shows you when he's mad (especially at you), then that is great! Hear me out…. Most dudes minds work like "what she won't do, another bitch will" OR "fuck bitches get money" … so they don't even waste their time cussing you out over something little or big.. They just go and have the next bitch make his frown go upside down.. Getting a man mad isn't hard, we know that.. but for a man to step out of character and show you that he's mad now thats showing you that you mean something. Then when y'all can fix the fact that he's mad, that just means y'all are able to work together.. and isn't that what relationships are about.. (and BTW i guess this sign doesn't go for the psychotic men that are just fucking insane all the time.. but then again, all these signs are for my realllll nigggggasssss. and respectable young men..)

19.  Surprises and gifts  

Now, I'm not saying all the dudes out there "got it" and need to "trick off" but gifts do mean a lot. Even if it's something small (big gifts are great also JUST SAYING)... But something from the heart, something that he actually thought about to get you. Men aren't usually that creative with gifts and that's fine, shit a pair of shoes will always work fellas (HINT HINT) but it's the little stuff!! The little thoughtful gifts are usually the ones we remember. Surprise gifts, what?????? Easiest way to make your girls panties wet and show her you were thinking about her. See ladies, you were on his mind! Give that man a pat on his back.

20. HE TELLS YOU!!!

Last but not FRICKING least. The greatest and easiest way to know if a man is REALLY into you, is by ... *drum roll* BY HIM TELLING YOU!! Yes, some men lie. But you just need to be better at reading people young lady. Take his word. If he's telling you he wants you, believe him. If the signs are there, believe them. And, if they're not there then BELIEVE THEM. You can't force shit. No matter how good of a woman you are. If he's there for a reason, you will eventually figure him out. If he's there cus he wants you, wants to build with you, wants you to be his... HE WILL LET IT BE KNOWN... 

     All in all, these signs are just a little something to think about next time you're questioning yourself if he's feeling you. If he's the right one to take the next step with. Don't come blaming me if shit doesn't work out either, cus honestly I'm just here for the good stuff. Leave when it rains type of bitch, JUST KIDDING. If he shows you these signs then there's a good chance he's the one. Put your guard down and make shit happen. Work on you, work on him. And just be fucking great. And if yall get married invite me to the wedding BIHHHH. Over and out!

20 signs he's into you.... Part 1

     Hey bitches! Im gonna start this off pretty quickly. The name of this post is as clear as it can get. 20 signs that a man is into you... aka 20 signs that a man could possibly make you his lady..... also just fuck cus these niggas be straight finessing, but imma give them the benefit of the doubt and say these are the sign that he wants you to be his girl.. Read up, give me some feedback, and enjoy the show...

1. Calling/ texting for no reason...

Now, some people are on their phones 24/7. Most people use their phone when it comes to work, and school... They're checking their emails, online shopping, stalking or just updating their social networks. But phones are literally glued to our hands nowadays. But that doesn't mean he's always trying to get in contact with the woman he's dealing with at the moment. Shit I know a lot of dudes who can go days without speaking on the phone with the person they're fucking with and shit be cool. And I GUESS that's ok, but also, I think that means he's just not that into you. A simple call, or text means a lot and lowkey shows a lot. I know your phone is in your hand as soon as you're not busy, so if I see that you're texting me I know I crossed your mind. A man may not care too much to text, so a call is cool. Or maybe vise versa, he hates talking on the phone but he makes sure to texts you and update you on his day. 

2. He wants to be around you....

Now I'm not saying he wants to be all up under you all damn day like a little puppy cus that's just creepy... Nah wait, I'm lying that's not creepy cus I like being under a nigga.. BUT STILL. What I'm saying is he actually wants to spend time with you! And not just give you hard dick and bubble gum then call you an uber. He makes an effort to see you regularly. He enjoys your company and you can tell! 

3. He makes time for you...

Now this is always a plus. He not ONLY wants to be around you, but he somehow someway fits you in his hectic schedule. Now that's true love to me. Shit, he's a busy man. And you don't want to make shit too crazy for him by complaining that you don't see him. YOU DONT HAVE TO, because he makes sure to give you some of his time. 

4. His friends/ family know about you...

Now let's me clarify this, cus this can get taken the wrong way. His friends and family not only KNOW about you, but they get a chance to actually know you. And you get to know them. Not that "oh I met his mother when I was walking through the living room to his bedroom" type shit. I mean, his boys actually like you with him, so they want to feel you out and see what you really about. If he really becomes your man his friends automatically become your friends. So this is a crucial part of the relationship. His friends and family need to like you just like you need to like them. Cus they aren't going anywhere! 

5. The softie on FLEEK....

You know I had to stop all the "textbook" answers real quick and come with the real. If this man is comfortable around you with his meat on soft, you my friend... You just might be the one. And I don't mean, just after you suck him off, go and get the wet rag to clean him off softie. I mean, just laying around dick all squishy and letting his little pee pee swanggg softie. Shit you might actually be the love of his life so just feel special.

6. He takes time to get to know the people around you....

He's eager to know about your friends and family. Because not only do you get to know all about his friends and family he needs to be just as comfortable around yours! 

7. EYE CONTACT...

Some of us aren't good with body language and that's fine. Body language means everything to others though, you can read somebody just by the way they move... BUT one thing everyone should pay close attention to is EYE CONTACT. Now it's a sign of respect, that's one thing. Another thing it just shows he's paying close attention to YOU and YOUR words. Eye contact says a lot about someone, and if you're wondering if he's that special someone, pay attention to them eyes next time you're saying something real to him. 

8. Listens to you...

Listening is simple. Everyone listens. Shit even a little 5 year old can listen. But when he listens to you, with the intent to understand now that's different. That's something not everyone has in their life. Remembering the little details you tell him. So if he's doing that, shit you better keep him around.

9. Overly Concerned....

Ok, hear me out. Being concerned about someone may be a natural instinct. BUT, being overly concerned is NOT. When he cares about you and your well being and wants the best for you that's a great sign. we're all concerned to a certain degree about the people in our lives but when he makes it a habit to make sure you ate, gets you warm when youre cold, holds you when you're sad... That is something you keep close! Because the next man may not give two shits about if you haven't ate all day. PAY ATTENTION LADIES 

10. Doesn't mind your flaws...

We all have them. Some more than others. Some are more comfortable with theirs than others but when he knows your flaws, sees them and accepts them.... WHATTTTTTTTT... Now there's nothing wrong with fixing what you want to fix, and being the best YOU that you want to be. But he can make you feel just as beautiful with that little extra 10 pounds you want to lose so badly. "Put your flaws in the hands of a real nigga and see what happens" them flaws turn into something you ain't even worried about anymore!