7. Intentions- Not everyones intentions are genuine and sincere. Some people have wicked intentions that eventually will be shown. If you're just someone for the NOW, and your partner wants someone for the long run it won't work out. The fact that long term things never come up will be a major factor
8. Popularity- this might be linked to insecurities and even trust issues. But popularity is on its own. You have access to be around more people, maybe a different group of people. Possibly a lot more people see you, want you.. That could make your partner uneasy.. It's one thing to have a "regular" partner that goes to the store and is getting hit on because he or she happens to be attractive. It's ANOTHER, that ANYWHERE he or she goes they are noticed, maybe in some cases they are worshipped (sounds weird but it happens).... Some people can handle dating Becky from up the street, but if they had a Halle, they couldn't handle the pressure.. Or even someone just as simple as Miracle or a Lira... So if you can't handle the heat, stay the fuck up out the kitchen, AKA don't date someone that is... can be... or will be in the limelight..
9. Fail to nurture- Not giving the attention, and time that is needed for both parties can only end badly. Both need to put effort forward to make sure the bond stays strong. Little things like movie dates, or just random intellect conversations will make it known and felt that both of you are still very much invested and interested in the relationship. It'll make it harder for one to step outside of the relationship looking for something, because you are doing the little things to make a relationship feel as one...
8. Popularity- this might be linked to insecurities and even trust issues. But popularity is on its own. You have access to be around more people, maybe a different group of people. Possibly a lot more people see you, want you.. That could make your partner uneasy.. It's one thing to have a "regular" partner that goes to the store and is getting hit on because he or she happens to be attractive. It's ANOTHER, that ANYWHERE he or she goes they are noticed, maybe in some cases they are worshipped (sounds weird but it happens).... Some people can handle dating Becky from up the street, but if they had a Halle, they couldn't handle the pressure.. Or even someone just as simple as Miracle or a Lira... So if you can't handle the heat, stay the fuck up out the kitchen, AKA don't date someone that is... can be... or will be in the limelight..
9. Fail to nurture- Not giving the attention, and time that is needed for both parties can only end badly. Both need to put effort forward to make sure the bond stays strong. Little things like movie dates, or just random intellect conversations will make it known and felt that both of you are still very much invested and interested in the relationship. It'll make it harder for one to step outside of the relationship looking for something, because you are doing the little things to make a relationship feel as one...
10. Selfishness- Being single and being selfish is completely normal, you're suppose to be! Its your time to worry about bettering yourself for yourself. All that is great until you get into a relationship, and you no longer should just be worried about yourself, but also your partner.. Putting yourself first now becomes a big NO. No healthy relationship can last with selfishness throughout it
11. Sex drive- Thought I was gonna skip over the REAL shit huh? Y'all should know me better... Sex is always important, because even though sex isn't needed like oxygen or water, its deff something that we crave. If you happen to fall head over heels for someone just to learn their sex drive is very low compared to yours, that may complicate things. No one wants to have to search else where for something that should be taken care of at home.. Not saying you have to fuck your partner everyday but just compromise so that you both can be happy and bust a few nuts here and there..
And that my friends, are just a few relationship killers.. Of course there's plenty more that I missed out on, I apologize for that. But these are the few that stood out most to me. You just have to remember that no relationship is perfect, so of course you can't perfect it... BUT what you can do is work together to try to avoid missing out on something great because of small things.. Mostly everything I spoke about can be fixed, you just have to want to fix it. And if it can't be fixed (e.g. popularity, you can't help that you're famous or well known...) then your partner is going to have to come to terms with their doubts and insecurities and figure it the fuck out... And just like that, I'm out like a thief in the night, ENJOY FUCKERS
