The Real

Re-la-tion-ship:           The way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected


      NOW with that definition I want you to think of how you view a relationship. How does one begin, how do you make one work? Now what ever you just thought of, I want you to totally forget about that, because 9 out of 10 times that’s not real life. Or atleast not real life for people OUR age in 2013.  A relationship usually consists of three people IM JUST BEIN HONEST (hence why in the definition it says “two or more”) just one person isn’t enough anymore, sad truth but someone had to say it....

      Men have side bitches fighting to be a main, and females have dudes lined up on the side just waiting for his chance. There I said, we know it we just keep it to ourselves. ESPECIALLY FEMALES!! No chick is going to admit that she keeps contact open with one or two different men while “seriously” dealing with someone else, JUST IN CASE. WELL there you have it, we do. We all aint shit as a whole. Cant blame the men for this, and men cant blame females for this. Double standards still live, but what females are doing is like the “don’t ask don’t tell” rule… even though im sure if you ask the bitch still aint going to tell, WELP. At the end of the day  were all humans, dick or vagina we need love, affection, attention… ALL THAT. If your man, or girl is slacking in one field you go else where to find it.

      Now don’t get me wrong, I know there are good men and good women in this world that are 100% faithful and totally believe in the word MONOGAMY, then theres the rest of us…. Now with social networks making things easier and easier to find your dream man or girl, “cheating” has became an everyday thing. You click on this profile just to see an attractive female whose selfies are popping….. WHY WOULD HE NOT DROP HIS NUMBER ON AN OLD PICTURE? Especially when you don’t do shit but complain.. YOU KNOW YOU COMPLAIN TOO… you know it, so don't shake your head at me. Ladies he's cheating cus you're probably MAD annoying… lol, just kidding. well, kinda sorta.. not really..

      And you niggas aint any better than these bitches. Yall think just cus you have a long dick that shes just gonna sit around waiting for your trifling ass. UM NOOOO, all she needs is a pedi and mani and Ocho Cinco is gonna follow your queen on twitter. its that simple. and LORD knows your bitch will follow back… and right then and there you lost her…. do you really want ocho telling her how pretty she is? NO so you do your job so the bitch wont be on twitter looking for that niggas approval. DO MORE, everyone do more. Niggas tell your girl her outfit looks dope, her eyes are looking extra chinky today, IDK JUST DO MORE…. Ladies, when your man comes home from a long day, give that man a hug and a kiss. Take his boots off for him, shit RUN HIS SHOWER for him.. LITTLE SHIT DOES MATTER..

      Shit could all be so simple if everyone was just completely honest with eachother and what they want/need… Eventually people get comfortable, and that ruins it. Forcing everyone to step outside the relationship all while still claiming to be the “faithful” one FOH.. I want no parts, none at all. I can admit that, too scared. Relationships is like willingly going to jail… FUCK OUTTA HERE DOG, I'm good.